Kayla Allen

Officiant & Guide

Your wedding is a threshold moment.

Let me guide you through.

It’s a courageous and bold choice to enter wholeheartedly into something new.

Invite me to come alongside you and together, we will create a memorable ceremony that celebrates your unique commitment to one another.

A newly married couple celebrating outdoors with a floral arch, woman in a white wedding dress holding a bouquet, man in a black tuxedo, hand raised in happiness.

“She took the time to get to know us and made us feel comfortable and excited about our big day. Our ceremony was elegant, intimate, lighthearted, and warm while carrying the strong emotion the day deserved. We could not have been happier with Kayla's role in our wedding.”

- Kylie & Layne

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Marriage License Signing

For couples who have a friend or family member to host the ceremony

Day of marriage license signing
Option to add ceremony creation session
Option to add coaching for your officiant
Assistance in obtaining marriage license
Coordination with wedding planner on timeline for signing
Completion and filing of marriage license

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Ceremony + Premarital Counseling

For couples wanting to invest in a lifelong love story.

Online assessment with personalized & practical results
Three 90-minute premarital counseling sessions
Custom wedding message & storytelling
Participation in the rehearsal
Officiate the marriage
Pastoral relationship
Ceremony planning workbook
One 60-minute wedding creation meeting
Access to shared planning document for follow up and collaboration
Participation in rehearsal
Officiation of your marriage
Completion and filing of marriage license
Early arrival to coordinate with vendors

Outdoor wedding ceremony with bride and groom walking towards seated guests on a grassy field with scenic mountains in the background.

Ceremony Creation & Officiation

For couples looking for a traditional ceremony with a touch of personality

Ceremony planning workbook
One 60-minute wedding creation meeting
Access to shared planning document for follow up and collaboration
Participation in rehearsal
Officiation of your marriage
Completion and filing of marriage license
Early arrival to coordinate with vendors

A wedding ceremony outdoors under a large tree with guests seated in chairs, a bride and groom standing in front of the officiant.

Ceremony Planning Workbook

I’ll provide samples and outlines. You and your partner start by naming what matters most to you.
What does marriage mean to you? We will use language that resonates with your love story & hopes for the future.
As an experienced officiant, I have scripts & samples from you to choose from or write your own. I’ll provide a starting place for you and your partner to collaborate on what works best for you.

Preview Workbook

Let’s work together

Erin & Steve

If you’re looking for the perfect wedding officiant, look no further than Kayla! We weren’t exactly sure what we wanted for the ceremony, but she made everything so easy. We wanted to include my fiancé’s daughters as part of the ceremony, and Kayla came up with a beautiful and creative idea that incorporated them into our vows in the most meaningful way. Kayla is warm, professional, and truly listens to the wants and needs of the couple. She made us feel comfortable and confident, and she’s just such a joy to be around. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant. Don’t think twice—choose Kayla!
Hunter & Tyler

Kayla was a wonderful officiant who made the arcane process of marriage licensing in Virginia easy and understandable. She also prepared a wonderful ceremony for us. As a gay couple without the aid of tradition to fall back on, this was a huge help that made our wedding all the more special and enjoyable.
Susan & Frank

We won the lottery with Kayla! You will instantly feel the warmth and connection from the start. We would highly recommend doing the premarital counseling. She reaffirms your compatibilities and emphasizes the steps to take to create a happy, lifelong marriage. She got to know us well and was able to personalize the speech to us. The rehearsal was efficient and smooth under her direction. She provided a great template to personalize the ceremony speech with beautiful excerpts and suggestions that made it easy for us to have the most perfect day. We are so honored and happy to have her in our memories when we reflect on our wedding day. She will go above and beyond to make your day special!
Kaitlin & Trevor

We LOVE Kayla and highly recommend her as a wedding officiant! We really got to know her with premarital counseling ahead of our wedding day (highly recommend this package) and it made for such a personalized and customized ceremony experience. The way she structured the ceremony truly made it so special and geared towards the two of us. Multiple guests told us it was the best ceremony they’ve ever seen! Kayla is so fun to work with and we truly couldn’t be happier to have had her as our officiant for our special day. Wouldn’t change a thing!!